Asking your Ex for dating advice?

March 18th, 2010
Hello Cupidfish, it’s nice to see a site dedicated to Anglers and outdoor people. Alright, here is where I am at. My Ex of 10 years and I are still good friends or better friends because we are not together. We talk on an occasion and had a couple of relationships after we split. In short, I am back on the market and she is happily involved with another man. Anyways, I feel comfortable enough to ask her about dating advice or the pro’s and cons of my actions when we were together. We do not have any emotional attachments but developed a good relationship on and off over the years.
So the question is would you ask you Ex for dating advice?- Dave in PA
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West coast shore fishing rigs?

March 17th, 2010
Hey WC anglers I am Dan from PA and I am a teacher and planning for my summer vacation and decided to shore fish California all the way down to Cobo Mexico. I will be new to “West Coast”   sea/shore fishing, but I need some good graphical instructions on how to make a line, dimensions and style of rigs that work best on the Left Coast. If you can help I’d sure will appreciate it.
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Pier or Lake fishing Southern California

March 17th, 2010
Pier or Lake fishing Southern California? I just moved to the San Fernando Valley in  Southern California and so new and want to get out and do some fishing. I looking for information/website (or advice) on how to setup my hooks,  good bait, etc for the local lake fishing or pier fishing. Thanks in Advance,  Christian.
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Outdoors-Woman program coordinator

March 17th, 2010

“I have never experienced a moment where I thought I was going to die until now,” Sue Tabor told me on the phone last week after crashing her truck.

Trim, petite and emitting enough energy to qualify for nuclear reactor status, Sue is Michigan’s Becoming an Outdoors-Woman program coordinator. Like the proverbial long-lived cat, she’s had her share of lives. She worked as a promotions director at Bass Pro Shops, a coordinator for NWTF’s Women in the Outdoors program and a state representative for Michigan’s 71st District. But she almost exhausted all nine of them when her truck hit a patch of black ice a few weeks ago.

“I was going slowly, as a matter of fact it seemed everyone was passing me,” Sue said. “Then
I felt the backed start to sway, and I did what I usually do to keep it straight, but the little S10 started to spin and kept spinning. I think I did two complete circles on the expressway, before I hit the guardrail, bounced across to the left side, got into some deep snow in the median and that’s when I was able to bring her back into control and slow down, then stop.  Thank God all those other cars had passed me and that I didn’t hit another car. ”

Sue and her friend emerged from the wreck shaken and sore but otherwise okay. However, her truck was DOA.

The next weekend Sue was headed up north to host a BOW Discovery weekend, where 67 women had the opportunity to cross country ski, snowshoe, dog sled and check out a host of other courses including outdoor survival.

I doubt the outdoor survival class included instructions on what to do if your vehicle spun out like it had been deliberately wrecked by NASCAR driver Carl Edwards. However, Sue contends those schooled in the outdoors are more apt to prepare themselves for emergency situations.

“When we travel, we ready ourselves the same way we would when heading to the woods,” Sue said. “We make sure we have everything we need, especially in the north during the winter months.”

While Sue was lucky and had a cell signal where she wrecked, she advised thinking about what you would need to do to stay comfortable if you were stranded in the cold because of an accident or your vehicle broke down. A blanket, candy bar, first aid kit and water are items Sue keeps in her truck year round.  In the winter, she adds disposable hand and foot warmers to the kit as well as an extra pair of boots and socks to stay warm.

The most important item to have with you is your brain, especially when you’ve recharged it with knowledge of first aid and CPR.

Sue said the big take home from the experience, though, was more mental modification than what she puts in her glove box.

“Don’t wait to try the things you’ve always wanted to try. Life can be over in an instant.”

Sue is taking her own advice. The dog sledding at the BOW Discovery weekend tripped her trigger and she’s already making plans to mush.

You shouldn’t wait either whether you’ve always wanted to shoot a handgun or cast a fly rod. Sue is trying to make it easier for those of you who are battling the two-headed monster called “time and money.” She’s lowered the cost of the BOW programs by offering one-day and weeknight events. And she’s trying to get more courses offered throughout the state to reduce drive time.

To find a BOW workshop in Michigan, visit http://www.michigan.gov/dnr/1,1607,7-153-10369_15424—,00.html

To find BOW events throughout the country, visit http://www.uwsp.edu/cnr/bow/map.aspx

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Steps to fillet a crappie

March 16th, 2010
Here’s a great video on the correct steps to fillet a crappie and these fish are huge! Simple and easy and hopefully be able to do this soon ;-)
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Bass boats pros and cons

March 16th, 2010

I also want to ask a question about wanting  to buy a bass boat. There are a lot of pros on some of the choices I am am looking at, but the cons are would a bay boat be better suited for my needs?. I’ll be fishing in salt/brackish water during the summer, but the rest of the year I’ll be will be bass fishing in lakes, etc. What should I do or better yet, anyone here on CupidFish have a solution on or advice?

Terry
PS. Great site and like the fact we can talk to the ladies and fishing!
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Bass Boats and big engines?

March 16th, 2010
Bass Boats and big engines? We British anglers are amazed and fascinated with American boats and the Bass Boats seems to be like a rocket ship more then an aid to catching bass. When we go fishing in the UK we like to sneak up on the fish, but those boat motors would scare the fish away here? How is that possible?
Guy- UK
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Is this realistic a dating scenario

March 15th, 2010

Hey CupidFish ! Is this a realistic a dating scenario? I have two friends male and female that were college roommates and still great friends to this day and live together. Both are very active in outdoor sports that they do together (camping, Fly fishing, hiking etc). Both have an active dating life, but share a house and have separate rooms and lounge around in their underwear? I’ve visited my friend and seen the young women  laying on the living room floor in a tshirt and panties watching tv or playing xbox.  After work they’ll cook dinner together and hangout and they are fine with it and both even share their dating experiences with each other.. They are truly best friends, and can’t understand how this works? Something must be going on..?

GB in FL
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A 50 year old chance to find a man

March 15th, 2010

Living in a small town in the mountains of New Mexico. Sadly, I’ve been widowed twice in the last 22 yrs and cant seem to find a man that is around my age, single, and is not a fake after 6 weeks of dating. Are there any good ole boys left? who like the outdoor life as much as i do?

Fay

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A GOOD LURE FOR STRIPED BaSS?

March 14th, 2010
This whole week I have off from my job so I am going fishing with my father. I live in Long Island and we’ll be fishing along the coast on Long Island sound, possible less than a 1/4-1/2 mile off-shore and trolling. Here is a little info about long island sound, it’s not too clear of water, more of a green mercy color, and there can be a lot of seaweed, and not too rocky but there are areas with great rock structures. As mentioned, we want to go trolling for striped bass and we do not own a down rigger and don’t want to pay $300 just to buy one. What are some rigs/lures that we can use hooking it up to a conventional ocean fishing rod. Were on a 19ft power boat so this is not a jon boat or small aluminum hull were trolling with. Like i said what are some good “inexpensive” lured jigs rigs what ever that will troll nicely at slow speed and attract striped bass.
Any information you can cast my way would sure help. Thanks
Tony
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