Hello Cupidfish, it’s nice to see a site dedicated to Anglers and outdoor people. Alright, here is where I am at. My Ex of 10 years and I are still good friends or better friends because we are not together. We talk on an occasion and had a couple of relationships after we split. In short, I am back on the market and she is happily involved with another man. Anyways, I feel comfortable enough to ask her about dating advice or the pro’s and cons of my actions when we were together. We do not have any emotional attachments but developed a good relationship on and off over the years.
So the question is would you ask you Ex for dating advice?- Dave in PA




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Why not? If you truly have that type of relationship with the person then ask them, especially if you have dated them because they can tell you what not to do the next time. Sounds to me like a great source of information and truth to better character build. Just make sure, if the person does tell you that you shouldn’t do something that you did in the past, that you don’t get pissed off at him/her for telling you.
Why not? What’s the worst thing that can happen?…you both can slit up again.
It seems perfectly normal to me if you both talk where you can talk like that with each other.
Looks you guys are still close and you can trust them, I think it’s fine. My ex from when I was 25 is one of my best friends now. He was there for me with advice when I realized I was a ******* and I still go to him for dating advice all the time, even now 8 years later, lol.
It’s perfectly normal. I ask, talk, and vent out to my ex-boyfriend all the time and we are much better friends then lovers.