Morning Cupidfish ! I got a dating mishap? So I accepted and went out on a first date last night, sitting at an outdoor cafe. So this walks passed and fell down right next to us. All the guys from other tables jumped up to help her, but the guy I was with just sat there and ignored it like it never happened. Does this mean anything to anyone? My date is a very good looking guy and I know sometimes guys like that don’t care about anyone but themselves. Should this be a warning sign or nothing major? First red flag?
Jenna
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Tags: First Date, Outdoor Cafe, Red Flag, Warning Sign
No it’s no it’s no a red flag. He could have sat there and did nothing for several reasons such as; He could be worried about what you might think, he could have figured there are already enough people helping the lady, he could have simply been paying all of his attention to you, and not have a reaction until it was too late, or he maybe reluctant to touch another women because he wouldn’t know her reaction, even though he would just be helping her and nothing else.
Maybe he simply saw that there were many already trying to help. Or he froze not wanting to direct his attention away from you……