So-I finally built up the courage to asked this beautiful women out on a date. I’ve known her for three months and we’ve always been friendly at work. Honestly, I’m not positive if she knows that I like to be more then “just friends” because I am not- I just want to be friends type of guy. It’s kind of like always being in a state om limbo. Anyway, after work I was walking her to her car and I made her laugh about a stupid new work policy and she got a smile and then I quickly mentioned, you are so beautiful when you smile.  She seemed flattered and said that’s really sweet and then had a huge smile. This was the perfect opportunity: you know, you’re really a great women and I think that you’re an truly a caring person, but I have to ask: I grown over the months to like you and your positive personality and was wondering if you would like to get together sometime and go out for coffee or something.” She seemed a bit taken back, so I said “I don’t need an answer right now, maybe just think about it and the invitation is always open. If you want to that’d be really awesome, but if not that’s okay too. It’s just that I think you’re a great person and I’d feel foolish to let something that could be wonderful slip away.” Everything that I said was true too-we are friends and get along great! I would love to take her out and see if anything can happen, but if she only wants to be friends I would be okay with that I guess. Do you think that I did alright? Also too, for our first date I’ve kinda think the coffee is a bit boring and want to get her in the outdoors for a picnic and fishing type fun before the weather turns.. what do you think?

Brian